Vivian Nwakah

As a child of immigrant parents always dreaming of their homeland and a young American child living in England; I always knew the world was much bigger than my sphere. I've always been determined to explore it and learn more about the cultures, languages, customs, mindsets, and mode of operation for this global world. How do people around the world love, care, and treat each other? I travel to live as a local and immerse myself as much as possible. As my travels increase I peel back the layers of societies, cultures and myself. Follow my journey as I travel this entire world for the rest of my life. Sometimes alone, sometimes with friends, maybe one day with a family, but I will continue. Vivian is an avid "professional" traveler and not only contributes to www.lonelytripping.com but will also be releasing a series of e-books for solo-travelers.

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Solo Travel: First day in Paris..how to conquer the experience

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This entry is part 5 of 5 in the series The Paris Experience: Je l'aime

Solo Travel: First in Paris How to conquer the experience.

I’ve been in Paris for a little over 24 hours
It was nice to get off the plane this time and see that everything was familiar and I knew how to get around.
Immediately as soon as I left my business school cohort, I started speaking and having fun in French…
Taxi drivers
My taxi driver and I had a great conversation in French about Tunisian culture US politics and Palestinian vs Israeli relations.. I love taxi drivers and I love talking about politics. Taxi drivers are a great resource because they know a lot about their city and they can remind you or orient you to the customs and mentality. They also know current affairs and can answer many of your questions. My French is rusty so practicing with my driver was a helpful reminder.
Phone service 
Then I had to get my phone so that I could connect with friends and family. I went to the Orange store at the Republic and though I waited a long time; (I have a sneaking feeling the salesman kept me in the store longer than I needed to..he was very excited about Chicago and really wanted to talk with me about Chicago and the French mentality), the service was great and easy to get a sim card. I bought an unlocked phone in the US so all I needed was a SIM card or chip. The providers that I like so far are Orange and SFR though there is also a provider called Free that offers really cheap no contract plans with the addition of free calls to the US. I have a smart phone and as a solo traveler Internet/dats plan is a must have…Google maps has already shown me my way around my neighborhood and my friend’s neighborhood.
Finding a place in Paris: 
I’m  living in chic Marais surrounded by some of the best boutiques in Paris, restaurants with wait lists for days and great museums like the Picssso museum, nightlife in Oberkampf, the Republic, the Bastille not too far away, and just a beautiful old part of the city. I actually found my apartment on….Craigslist!! My first successful Craigslist experience. A private owner obviously trying to help a traveling tourist out because he has a beautiful studio in an amazing part of town that he is renting for a great price. I had to climb many flights of stairs with heavy baggage but the apartment has everything I need including maid service and its quite comfortable.
I had reservations about using Craigslist but I asked the landlord to show me the apartment via Skype and he was able to ease my fears face to face and by being extremely informative and helpful in all matters. I would also suggest using airbnb.com and Couchsurfing www.couchsurfing.com long term short term rental section to look for a place to live as well.
Nightlife
I was extremely jet lagged but I wanted to make sure I met up with an old friend from previous Paris visits. We met in the suburb of montreuil and went to an underground reggae party! I loved it because I was the only foreigner there and it’s important for me to have real French experiences while I am in Paris..no one speaking English!! Apparently underground reggae parties are not normal for French so it was a fun experience. I want to really immerse myself in French culture so what better way than hanging out with French people experiencing a different culture through music. Interesting and fun to let lose and dance after a long flight:) We went onto the roof to see the view and my friend pointed out that the building was overlooking an immense Gypsy refugee camp..added some mystique to the experience…
Best way to feel comfortable in Paris: 
..find a great outdoor cafe sit under the sun and watch the theatre of the street, talk to people ask questions and practice French..
Speaking French:
It’s important to speak French to get anywhere here…the French love French!! They also secretly love Americans but that will only get you so far. In order to conduct business eat, take the train you’ve got to learn French. I couldn’t purchase my navigo pass, which is the train monthly pass today because there was a problem with the machine and the attendant and I had a miscommunication . The situation was too complicated for my level of french..luckily a girl passing by saw the situation and paid for my Entrance into the subway..So nice of her otherwise the attendant and I would’ve been struggling to understand each other for much longer!! Also I’m going to have to pay it forward because that nice girl really helped me out today!!!
Today I spent the day exploring a neighborhood with a new acquaintance and learning more about the French..first off Everytime I spoke French I was laughed at because apparently my accent is funny..oh well their advice was to always speak clearly and with confidence and to speak quicker with more authority..then I won’t be laughed at I guess:) they also expressed a fascination with my smiling..apparently French girls don’t randomly smile at people and the French don’t smile in photos…..oh the power of a smile!!! I’ve decided though it has the ability to get me in trouble..I’m going to keep smiling because that’s just who I am..I find the humor in everyday life I enjoy life and I want to spread that joy..
Tomorrow I start a masters program in Paris a dream come true so I’m sure the experience will come with much more to write about!

 

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Paris France:Solo travel for the moments..burning

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This entry is part 4 of 5 in the series The Paris Experience: Je l'aime

On Friday I’m moving to Paris, the city that changed my life and got me where I am today.
When I first visited Paris, much younger, it was the culmination of a dream come true. I’d studied French since my grade school days and all the way through college. My mother named me after a French actress and I had always dressed as if I was destined to be a Parisian and so I made it there. The experience ended up impacting my life in a way I didn’t expect. I learned how to eat. Not just for quantity but quality. My taste buds were awakened in a way I’d never felt before. You can eat real, fresh, good, rich food and be satiated off of small bites due to the exquisiteness of the experience. You can take your time to savor, love, delve into and dream about the experience of eating something. All while surrounded by the ancient, old, beautiful romantic scenery surrounded by friends at a long table that you’ve reserved for hours, the French way..The wine is flowing..the talk of life is flowing, and the experience is burned forever in my memory. And so I take it home to encapsulate that moment forever and ever again. That’s what Paris will do to you. Every corner and neighborhoods can be like this experience, every moment can lead you into more moments that mimic this savory theme. Paris, France. What a beautiful place, stories and vignettes happen on every corner and each neighborhood introduces you to a different story time and place. Paris France. Let the adventure begin…see you Friday

Solo Travel in Salvador Brazil

I kept repeating to myself throughout my time in Salvador Bahia… I don’t believe in gods and goddesses, they don’t have powers, I revoke thee voodoo. But the spirit of Candomble is strong in Bahia. In Rio de Janeiro I saw slight reminders of the strong Candomble presence in Brazil, an offering on the floor, and in a tree, and in the ocean….but in Salvador Bahia it drew me in. The seven orixás, are everywhere in Salvador, watching you. Dressed up in Catholic priest outfits to fool the white slave masters, The Seven Orixas of African Candomble fed the hungry souls of the African slaves through deceit and trickery of the European slave masters. Now Brazilians, Cubans, Yoruba’s other Africans from all over the world pray to the gods and goddesses of Candomble for safe passage through life.

I was able to witness the goddess of the ocean Iemanja, receiving her gifts on her special day. In the ceremony there was a woman being carried out, she was put in a boat and floated out to sea. She was possessed, and shaking, overtaken apparently by the spirit of Iemanja. I could feel her energy from on top of a rock that I sat on to stay safe. The power of this woman writhing under the power of the spirit was awe-inspiring. Iemanja is the Queen of the Ocean and the mother of all. She demands flowers, makeup, perfume and other items for safe passage, security, and protection of children. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yemaja

By the end of my trip I left an offering to the vain goddess of the sea.

Solo travel in Salvador Bahia Brazil

 

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Solo Travel: Slightly possessed by the Sea Goddess Iemanja

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Solo Travel Awakened by African roots in Salvador Brazil

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This entry is part 9 of 8 in the series Brazil Series

AFRICAN ROOTS IN BRAZIL

I cherish private moments with my Nigerian mother and father when they pass down the oral history of our people. What excites me most is when my mother tells me stories of her mother’s people. Stories of the Efik tribes and nomadic tribes that shaped her existence. In a cold nordic suburb of Chicago, Illinois there was an awakening in me. The more I grew older I could not mistake my African heritage. Its in my walk, my talk, my drive. My people, that traveled up and down the Sahara Desert, traded palm oil, language full of Hebrew, Syro-Arabic influences, a language that was an early disseminator of education, trade and commerce for West Africa. A language that dates back to 4000 BC. What a brave people proud people I come from. You cannot deny what’s in your soul and was pre-determined centuries before you were born.

So when I had my first experience with the people of Salvador Brazil, it awoke a sense of kinship. Many of the slaves sent to Salvador Brazil, were from Nigeria. In their stride, their faces, their language, their food, their joy for life, I knew I had found my way a step towards home. Just like the spirit and essence of my ancestors is alive and well in me, it is the same in Bahia. You can not take the Africa away. Bahians were proudly African. Afros, and proclamations of a connection with Africa was on everyone’s lips. Women and men with fair white skin proudly proclaimed their African heritage and it was exhilarating to be in Bahia and see this display of love for the origin. Original Africa

SOLO TRAVEL AWAKENED BY AFRICAN ROOTS IN BRAZIL

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Capoeira in Salvador Bahia Brazil

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This entry is part 8 of 8 in the series Brazil Series

 Capoeira in Salvador Bahia Brazil

I was lucky enough to dive right into Bahian culture during my stay in Salvador. Capoeira is a Brazilian martial art that is part fighting and partly dance and singing. It was amazing to be in the room and watch how each opponent adjusted and synchronized their body with the movements of their opponent in order to win the match. Continue reading →

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Random Musings: The power of Music

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Random musings: The power of music

for most of my life a song has haunted me. Classical music maybe by Tchaikovsky…I used to play this tape over and over again as a child. I set my stories to this music and read my most prized books to this song. but I’ve never been able to find it again.

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New Years Celebration in Rio de Janeiro: Tips for Reveillon

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This entry is part 2 of 8 in the series Brazil Series

 

New Years in Rio de Janeiro:  Tips for Reveillon

As the clock counted down 5, 4, 3, 2, 1..the fireworks erupted in the sky in a way I’ve never experienced before. Millions of people around me hugged, kissed, screamed, joyously. The beginning of a New Year spent in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil in Copacabana Posts  3-5  of the beautiful beach packed with people from all over Brazil and the rest of the world. For a second the sound of the people celebrating around me was drowned out into the background. All I could hear was my heart beating hard as I realized how lucky I was to bring in 2013 in a place as unique and exciting as Brazil.

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Solo Travel in Amsterdam, Netherlands: Visit For the moments

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Solo travel in Amsterdam!!!

I always step off of the train straight from Schiphol and know that as soon as I reach Amsterdam Centraal the memorable times will begin…

Amsterdam is just that comfortable European city. Amsterdam will embrace you with open arms. Its a city of contradictions, compromise, acceptance, extremes and moderation. It is everything and nothing more. You can find whatever you want here.

The moments in Amsterdam are some of my most special experiences in my travels. So many

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